In Memory Of

Mr. Paul J.
Incarnato
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Guest book

  • April 01, 2026
    Uncle Paul was one of the greats. I have so many memories of Unc over the years…. He taught me to drive a stick shift in his fancy car, was the first to wake up and get everyone donuts at the beach, and was a huge mentor to me when I wanted to go into advertising. There was nothing better than falling asleep while watching “Cheers” together at the end of a great day. Love you Uncle Paul.
    Erin Ortiz
  • April 01, 2026
    Words cannot express how important "Uncle" Paul was to our lives and the lives of our family. His love will always be with us and ours with him. He was a truly special and remarkable man. We were blessed to have him as a most dear and close friend for over half a century. God Speed!
    Bill and Gloria Erdman
  • March 31, 2026
    So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a great friend and golfing buddy of so many of us at Garden City, for close to 40 years.
    “Inky”, as we affectionately called him, was a thoughtful, generous, kind, and caring human being.
    He was always there for his friends and family.
    Rest in Peace.

    Rest in peace.
    Sal Curiale
  • March 30, 2026
    Farewell Paul my dear friend and co-worker. Joan and I as well as our daughters have very fond memories of good times shared with you. We know our son Father Joseph is greeting you in heaven. Thank you Paul for being such a good and caring friend for so many years.
    I know our Lord is saying to you “Well done, my good and faithful servant “.
    Lou Gancila
  • March 30, 2026
    i remember playing golf with Paul many times. he was one of the most pleasant men I have ever met. When I told him I was running the marathon to raise money for leukemia he stepped up and sponsored me .

    rest in piece Paul. A life well lived.
    tom sullivan
  • April 01, 2026
    Uncle Paul was one of the greats. I have so many memories of Unc over the years…. He taught me to drive a stick shift in his fancy car, was the first to wake up and get everyone donuts at the beach, and was a huge mentor to me when I wanted to go into advertising. There was nothing better than falling asleep while watching “Cheers” together at the end of a great day. Love you Uncle Paul.
    Erin Ortiz
  • April 01, 2026
    Words cannot express how important "Uncle" Paul was to our lives and the lives of our family. His love will always be with us and ours with him. He was a truly special and remarkable man. We were blessed to have him as a most dear and close friend for over half a century. God Speed!
    Bill and Gloria Erdman
  • March 31, 2026
    So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a great friend and golfing buddy of so many of us at Garden City, for close to 40 years.
    “Inky”, as we affectionately called him, was a thoughtful, generous, kind, and caring human being.
    He was always there for his friends and family.
    Rest in Peace.

    Rest in peace.
    Sal Curiale
  • March 30, 2026
    Farewell Paul my dear friend and co-worker. Joan and I as well as our daughters have very fond memories of good times shared with you. We know our son Father Joseph is greeting you in heaven. Thank you Paul for being such a good and caring friend for so many years.
    I know our Lord is saying to you “Well done, my good and faithful servant “.
    Lou Gancila
  • March 30, 2026
    i remember playing golf with Paul many times. he was one of the most pleasant men I have ever met. When I told him I was running the marathon to raise money for leukemia he stepped up and sponsored me .

    rest in piece Paul. A life well lived.
    tom sullivan
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  • April 15, 2026
    Dear Mary, I was deeply saddened when I heard the news of Paul’s passing. Unfortunately, I didn’t find out until two weeks after it happened. I had the good fortune of working with Paul early in my career at manufacturers Hanover bank. He was an excellent man, a great friend and a fantastic teacher of business and life lessons that I would keep with me for my entire career. He was tough, fair, and like a big brother guided me along the righteous path that would help me for the rest of my life. He will be deeply missed, and he was one of a kind. Once again, my most sincere condolences on his passing.
    Capt John Raguso
  • April 15, 2026
    Dear Mary, I was deeply saddened when I heard the news of Paul’s passing. Unfortunately, I didn’t find out until two weeks after it happened. I had the good fortune of working with Paul early in my career at manufacturers Hanover bank. He was an excellent man, a great friend and a fantastic teacher of business and life lessons that I would keep with me for my entire career. He was tough, fair, and like a big brother guided me along the righteous path that would help me for the rest of my life. He will be deeply missed, and he was one of a kind. Once again, my most sincere condolences on his passing.
    Capt John Raguso
  • April 15, 2026
    Capt John Raguso
  • April 02, 2026
    Mary,
    Audrie, Evelina and I were all saddened to hear of your brother's passing and very moved by his obituary and your letter to him. We know you were very fond of each other and pray for you and the family at this distressing time.

    Jon, Audrie and Evelina
    Jon Campi
  • April 02, 2026
    I had the pleasure of being with Paul on many family occasions, he always impressed me with his graciousness and good conversation, the last time at John and Devon’s wedding. He was a treasured friend to Bill and Diane, devoted uncle to Erin and John a definite member of our family. I was even more impressed hearing of his great lifetime of service to his county, community and family as mentioned by the celebrant at Mass. Somehow judging from the few times I was in his company I knew he was that special kind of person.
    I was glad to have known him and all my condolences to his family.
    Maureen Flannery
  • April 01, 2026
    Uncle Paul was one of the greats. I have so many memories of Unc over the years…. He taught me to drive a stick shift in his fancy car, was the first to wake up and get everyone donuts at the beach, and was a huge mentor to me when I wanted to go into advertising. There was nothing better than falling asleep while watching “Cheers” together at the end of a great day. Love you Uncle Paul.
    Erin Ortiz
  • April 01, 2026
    Words cannot express how important "Uncle" Paul was to our lives and the lives of our family. His love will always be with us and ours with him. He was a truly special and remarkable man. We were blessed to have him as a most dear and close friend for over half a century. God Speed!
    Bill and Gloria Erdman
  • March 31, 2026
    So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a great friend and golfing buddy of so many of us at Garden City, for close to 40 years.
    “Inky”, as we affectionately called him, was a thoughtful, generous, kind, and caring human being.
    He was always there for his friends and family.
    Rest in Peace.

    Rest in peace.
    Sal Curiale
  • March 30, 2026
    Farewell Paul my dear friend and co-worker. Joan and I as well as our daughters have very fond memories of good times shared with you. We know our son Father Joseph is greeting you in heaven. Thank you Paul for being such a good and caring friend for so many years.
    I know our Lord is saying to you “Well done, my good and faithful servant “.
    Lou Gancila
  • March 30, 2026
    i remember playing golf with Paul many times. he was one of the most pleasant men I have ever met. When I told him I was running the marathon to raise money for leukemia he stepped up and sponsored me .

    rest in piece Paul. A life well lived.
    tom sullivan
  • March 30, 2026
    Cousin Paul
    Your smile was as big as your life. You will always be in our hearts and minds
    RIP
    George Pagnotta’s
  • March 30, 2026
    James and Debby Campanella
  • March 30, 2026
    Rest peacefully cousin Paul. You were one of the kindness men I knew. You will be truly missed. My Dad was especially fond of you and considered and considered you as a bonus brother. May your heavenly reunion be filled with joy.

    Frances Incarnato Willis
  • March 29, 2026
    To cousin MARY C. AND OUR PAST GREAT COUSIN PAUL I HAVE SOME FINE STORIES OF HIM,MY MOM AND DAD, CHARLIE AND MARIE LIVED IN THE SAME BUILDING WHEN YOU GUYS WERE GROWING UP AND JUST LOVED YOU GUYS, MANY FOND MEMORIES THEY HAD OF BOTH OF YOU AND WOULD TELL US STORIES OF THE OLD DAYS, YOU WILL BE MISSED, CHARLIE JR. AND RUTHANNE.
    Charles Incarnato
  • March 29, 2026
    Rest in peace Dear Friend Paul. All of your Friends in Meadowbrook Pointe Building 30 will forever remember you by the Kind, Caring, Respectful and Modest Gentlemen that you ALWAYS were to everyone throughout our community. You will surely be missed by All.
    Roger Foley
  • March 29, 2026
    Paul will surely be missed by all his friends and coworkers from MHT. A large group of us continued to stay in touch with Paul as he attended all of our quarterly dinners/lunches. A smaller group of us played golf with him frequently. I personally enjoyed being invited by Paul to the GCCC each year and told him it was one of the most pleasant and enjoyable golf outings I ever attended. Paul you were a great friend and may you rest in peace.
    Tony DeRosa
    Tony DeRosa
  • March 29, 2026
    Paul was a great friend. We enjoyed our golfing at GCCC. He was also a fellow homeowner at our Meadows community in Long Island . My wife, Lee and I dined with him often and in the old days, enjoyed sharing Jack Daniels, his favorite. It’s so sad to lose a good soul, a person who meant so much in so many good ways.
    Victor Sapuppo
  • March 28, 2026
    Wishing you peaceful rest, Cousin Paul! I remember with a smile how much you meant to Dad, and hope that your heavenly reunion is filled with joy. You will be missed and remembered with love.
    Elena Cook
  • March 28, 2026
    Rest peacefully cousin Paul. We were so very fond of you. And my Father considered you as a bonus brother. We all love you and will miss you dearly.
    Frances Incarnato Willis
  • March 28, 2026
    I could say so much, but I will simply say this: You showed me how to be a great Uncle. And being an Uncle is one of the absolute joys of my adult life.

    Thank you Uncle Paul. Love you.
    Craig Campanella
  • March 28, 2026
    May you rest in peace cousin Paul. We are very grateful we were able to reconnect. Playing golf with you at the Garden City Country Club is a memory I will always cherish. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
    Steven and Lorraine Incarnato
  • March 27, 2026
    Rest in peace, Uncle Paul... Your kindness, humor, and spirit lives on in all of us. I am forever grateful for the wonderful memories of our time spent together, and the influence and impact you've had on our of our lives... We love you always, and will miss you so much.
    John Erdman
  • March 27, 2026
    You will be with us in our hearts forever…we love you our dear, sweet Uncle Paul
    Carisa Campanella
  • March 27, 2026
    Rest peacefully sweet Uncle, you will live forever in all of us!
    Carisa Campanella